Monday, February 22, 2010

Laptop baru...

Salam semua...
My husband gave me new laptop. Actually, its his but since he's been using it, for not even 1 1/2 years, plus the good maintainance he did, i considered it as new jugak... boleh? it's much more faster, lighter and stylish. No pic, rasa malas nak naik ke atas mengambil kamera and cable.
Anyway, laptop baru menimbulkan rasa nak tukar layout blog yang baru la, tapi macam malas pulak nak customize balik....im looking for something yang lebih cerah and ceria. This id due to a suggestion from a friend. Actually, come to think again, i sendiri tak pasti why i choosed green as the background layout since im not a big fan of green. Maybe sebab masa tu baru2 pindah rumah and my husband painted our bedroom green kot......
takpe, tunggu je...

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Suami saya...

Salam semua...
Just a simple note, regarding a friend's comment towards my prev post....
wanie.....
inda pun sampai sekarang takut lagi... heheheh...

actually, memang betul, my husband ni baran orangnya, masa zaman sekolah dulu, even still, now. but trust me wanie, once you get to know him, ada different personality actually......

actually....

i've known my husband since im 16 years old, we went to the same school for two years, we were even classmate back then...

i never 'looked' at him seriously back then. dia seorang budak yang nakal, pernah kena gantung sekolah, suka buat lawak bodoh, poyo, perasan bagus, perasan hensem, asyik nak menang, dia je yang betul dan pelbagai lagi sifat -ve lain yang tak sepatutnya dinyatakan di sini.... cuma, ada satu insiden yang mengubah persepsi tersebut.

kisahnya begini...

my husband used to be a 'postman' between me, and his best friend time2 his best friend try nak mengorat (you know, teens...) wanie sure ingat siapa kan. jadi, selalulah my husband a.k.a Lalok at that time and me berhubung (berhubung je tau...) walaupun dalam hati betul2 tak suka bercakap dengan En. Lalok ni. One particular night, otw back to prep class after sesi latihan debate (we were both debators), he stopped me, indicating that he has something to say to me...

we talked bout something, actually he talked bout something...and the last sentence from him, was the one that mengubah segala persepsi negatif yang selama ini ada padanya... ayatnya ialah...

"....sedangkan pasir sungai boleh berubah, inikan pula hati manusia. kita tak tahu apa akan terjadi masa depan, jangan buat sesuatu keputusan secara terburu2" (masa tu ada sikit kaitan dengan permasalahan remaja)

nah... ambik kau, itulah ayat yang lahir dari mulut seorang budak lelaki yang sangatlah annoying before this. since that day, i changed my perception towards him, and as time flies, i realized that actually, he's a nice guy once you get to know him better... and here... i confess, mmg i did have a crush on him (he have no idea bout that) back when we're in form 4, before i move on with my life a year later (hopefully he's not reading this one) so as him

kami start bercinta during my final year di uia and he has started working. dari la before kawin, sampailah 6 bulan pertama perkahwinan kami, kami mengamalkan PJJ (perhubungan jarak jauh) i di gombak, dia di pekan nenas, i di perlis, dia di bangi, lepas kawin, i di grik, dia di sepang. boleh dikira dengan jari berapa kali kitorg dating before kawin, rasanya tak sampai 15 kali.

tapi paling seksa during the first six month of our marriage. i was staying in grik, perak while my husband in sepang. the journey by bus from grik to kl took 5 hours (3pm-9pm) and also from kl to grik (10pm-3am). memang suffer that time, i did all the travelling since sometimes my husband kena bertugas during weekend. punyalah gigih, sanggup naik bas dari kl pukul 10mlm and sampai grik pukul 3PAGI... i siap turun tengah jalan since my school sampai dulu before bus station. ingat lagi...jalan kaki dalam GELAP, TEPI HUTAN nak balik rumah. masa tu fikir nak sampai je, tapi kepala otak berimaginasi yang MACAM2...hehehehe... those were the days....

selepas kawin, my husband masih lagi ada sikap baran, tapi dah banyak berubah. and when i analyzed, dia akan marah only kalau ada kesilapan berlaku. the rest of the times, he's the most caring and loving guy i've known. Still, ada few things remain unchanged...

masih suka buat lawak...walaupun bukan lagi lawak bodoh

masih kuat mengusik (trust me on this, semua orang diusiknya, including his in-laws)

masih suka selalu menang...tapi dah boleh compromise

masih cepat marah...tapi cepat sejuknya



in all sort of way, he's the one who actually changed me, in a positive ways....

no more bangun lambat, since he's a morning person, tak kisahlah tidur pukul berapa tidur...

no more lengah2kan masa, since he's the most punctual person i've ever known...

no more sikap sambil lewa, since he takes everything seriously...

kadang2, or selalu i think, dia yang kena bersabar dengan his wife ni, yang masih suka kuat merajuk, selaly bangun lambat ;p, degil and keras kepala (seriously)

with him by my side...

tak payah susah2 basuh kereta, isi minyak, he'll do it
tak payah susah2 fikir solution sesuatu masalah, he'll do it
tak payah susah2 fikir menu nak masak, he'll do it
tak payah degil2 sangat, he'll not donna layan
tak payah nak boring2 di rumah, he'll always be there to cheer me up

so, i learnt that the phrase "don't judge a book by its cover" is absolutely right!!!!!! :)

p/s: actually this was written earlier, tapi masa tengah menaip, suddenly my husband duduk sebelah, and tiba2 nak close window tak boleh, hang pulak. he was asking" you buat apa ni? sambil mata liar membaca skrin komp...so, terpaksalah di postpone publishing it ;p

Thursday, February 18, 2010

K.E.N.A.N.G.A.N....

Salam semua...
I was going thru' old stuff... when i found something intresting ;p


this is a small frog key chain. though its small, it actually bring out a memory... back dated a few years ago, when we first start dating. It was actually a gift from me, to my husband indicating a very special and memorable time of our life...
Im not the kind of person who is capable of expressing my feelings verbally, instead, i'll use different approach, expressing what i feel. Something, my husband dont really like. Ye la, bila marah ke, suka ke, geram ke, anything, i used to keep it to myself....

So, this key-chain was used, as an indirect way, to tell my husband (my future boyfriend that time) that its time for us to make it official, i.e, im wanted to say "I Love You" to him, and saying YES for a further relationship with him :) HOW??? Notice the red heart at the middle of the toy? Special thing bout it is, once you press the heart, it will say.... *smooooch* "I Love You" an indirect way to say I love You.... ;p
and after approximately 5 years... i found the toy, among some other stuff... the first thing i said to my husband and our conversation was like this...

Me: Abang.... tengok ni, yang i bagi abang dulu (while pointing to it)
My husband: Hmmm... i tak tau sebenarnya apa motif toy ni, but still i keep
(and i press the heart, *smoooch* I Love You!!!, and i smiled)
korang nak tau reaction from my husband?
My husband: Eh, i tak tau ada bunyi2... (sambil membelek toy tersebut)
Me: Ya Allah, selama ni abang tak pernah dengar la bunyinya? penat je i meluahkan perasaan.....

Hmmmm... sabar je la...

Im not a big fan of teady bears, or something like that. Although, ada 3 yang disimpan, yang istimewa.... Apart from the first one i showed.. this is my fav



memang sentiasa di tepi katil...

bought in sunway pyramid, our fav dating spot. And the funny thing is, i yang tergedik2 nakkan patung ni. When he asked me what i want? tanpa segan silunya i said " I teringin sangat nak teddy bear. Kalau bercinta mesti ada satu teddy bear, untuk kenangan. Satu je...." He smiled, and bought me this one. I love it sooo much. I always keep with me, a miniture of my husband's perfume, Hugo Boss. Poyo tak kalau i cerita whenever he's away, or the times when we were apart from each other, i used to spray his perfume to the bear ang hugged it till im asleep.... ;p kalau duduk berjauhan dengan suami, then you'll know that its not that weird, doing it....

and, whenever we had a fight, or whenever i terasa hati with my husband, i akan tunjuk protes... wont hug him to sleep. konon2 merajuk la, tidur sambil peluk bear tu.... my husband will notice that, its sooo obivious ;p

notice that one of its eye is missing? hehehe, angkara nak saudaraku.... and i was suprised when my husband noticed it too....
the main reason i got this...



and got this thru Guardian stamp collection :) never seen my husband excited sangat mengumpul setem dari Guardian ni...
so, here it is,
ntahla apa motif entry ni, just sharing... :)

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Oh Ibu Mertuaku...


Salam semua...


Daring tak tajuk entry kali ni? Hehehe, bukan apa.... pagi tadi, listening to Hot FM, topik is about "Kisah Ibu Mertua". Banyak la komen2 diberi oleh pendengar yang membuatkan i tersenyum je sepanjang jalan.

Memang diakui, hubungan ibu mertua dan menantu tak selalunya indah. Just like hubungan kita dgn suami. Bak kata P. Ramlee, sedangkan lidah lagikan tergigit. Menerima dan menyesuaikan diri dengan orang yang baru, memerlukan masa dan kesabaran. Kita kena belajar tabiat, mengubah tabiat, mengambil hati, jangan cepat terasa hati, and few other things. As for me, Alhamdulillah... hubungan dengan ibu mertua bolehlah dikatakan ok, walaupun di awal2 perkahwinan, i doubt that my mother in law likes me. This is due to few reasons...


  1. The first time i met my MIL was on 3rd raya, the first year we were couple. Masa ni, nervous jangan cakapla... menggigil kepala lutut. My husband bukan saja bawak mak dia, tapi SELURUH adik beradiknya, penuh rumah. My husband ada 6 orang beradik, and he's the youngest, all all of his brothers and sisters alreay married except for a sister. So, just imagine, how to make the best impression in front of your future family in law. In addition, my MIL tak bercakap banyak, masam mukanya and ada few times, i caught her, starring at me.... so, i was wondering, orang tua ni tak sukakan aku ke... tak lawa kot aku ni... and few other things... It was the first time i met her

  2. Second time, was on the day my best friend during my days at MRSM BP, wanie got married, location Teluk Intan. Since the distance between Teluk Intan and Sabak Bernam (husband's hometown) too only 30mins drive, he decided to bring me to his house, right after kenduri. Masa ni, lagi la menggelabah since there will only be me, my husband, and her. Ditambah pulak dengan pengalaman pertama met her yang tak berapa memberansangkan tu, creating all kind of feelings.... In contrast, the 2nd day i met her was quite ok actually. we did a lot of talking, some jokes

  3. And everything was going smooth until a week after our marriage. During kenduri menyambut menantu, di bilik pengantin yang dihias indah....romantik, hehehe my MIL were sleeping with us... kalau korang, macam mana?

  4. To make things worst, on our second day of honeymoon, in langkawi, my husband received a phone call from his mother. Terkejut tak korang kalau, di saat2 indah dan manisnya mengecapi bulan madu, just the two of you... tiba2 ur MIL called and bgtau dia dah sampai jeti langkawi, and minta kami menjemput dia. Kalau korang macam mana????? Masa tu rasa nak marah sangat2, mood terus down, rasa mcm masa tu jugak nak balik, tak payah honeymoon semua. And that was the first time, me and my husband had our first fight as husband and wife, walaupun pada hakikatnya, my husband is not the person to be blame..."Bukan i yang ajak mak, bukan i yang suruh dia datang, i pun tak tahu rancangan dia, kenapa you nak marah i???", kata suamiku. Memang betul, but then, takkan nak marah my MIL kan, so i lepaskan marah pada my husband la... So our honeymonn ditemani oleh ibu mertua kesayanganku. Thank god that she was with few friends, staying jauuuhh dari hotel kami and my husband came out ith a bright idea that we already dalam pakej lawatan oleh pihak hotel, that we cannot join them. Fuuuhh... terlepas, but still, one incident, one of the night, my MIL called, saying that dia dah ada di lobi hotel kami and Tuhan menyebelahi kami, they went to the wrong one ;p we were staying at Langkasuka Beach Resot, they went to Hotel Langkasuka... itu la pengalaman bulan madu ku...

  5. My MIL suka SANGAT datang ke rumah kami, compared to rumah adik beradik lain.... and kalau dia datang, hujung minggu je mesti sibuk2 nak ajak SEMUA anak2 di berkumpul kat rumah kami. Dan at te end of the day, yang tetuk buat kerja, yang penat segala, would definately be me. Dan mula la episod nak bergaduh kami laki bini. I know, its not my hubby's fault, tapi bila badan dah penat, hati jadi cepat marah, dan terpaksa la lepaskan pada my husband.... kesian abang....

BUT.........


Despite that, as time goes by, i learnt to get to know her better....


I learnt that, we cannot compare btwn our own mother and our MIL, tak sama


Kegemaran kita tak sama


Tabiat kita tak sama


Cara memasak kita tak sama


Channel tv kegemaran kita tak sama


cuma satu yang sama....


Kita sayang orang yang SAMA.... Ahmad Fairuz b. Mohd Yusof :)


I learn that, bila saja rasa down, ingatkan kembali, jasa ibu mertua kita , melahirkan dan membesarkan suami kita, kerana di atas jasanya, besar suami kita tu, dapat kawin dengan kita :P


DAN....


selepas 2 tahun dan 7++bulan perkahwinan kami, Alhamdulillah.... hubungan yang terjalin bertmbah baik....



My MIL tahu my fav food, and selalu masakkan my fav food, instead of her own son's


My MIL tahu warna kegemaran ku, compared to her other menantu (she bought maroon jubah for me, balik dari Mekah...menantu lain, pilih warna masing2)


My MIL suka datang my house, sebab dia selesa with me, its a credit for me, right... even when my husband was not around for two month, she was staying with me, for a month....


So for me, keserasian antara dua individu, bukan dapat dikecapi sehari, it needs time dan kesabaran.... InsyaAllah


Now, she's currently not feeling very well, dah mula cakap yang merepek2 tentang mati...saki dan dll. Sebab sayang la, last week, rabu kami ambil cuti, balik sabak dan temankan dia yang sedang down sangat sebab dah nak kena mula dialisis


Dan sebab sayang jugakla, belum sempat kering peluh baru sampai, i masakkan makanan kegemarannya, masakkan bubur kacang yang dimintanya. Semoga dia lebih sihat nanti....

us.....