K.E.N.A.N.G.A.N....

Salam semua...
I was going thru' old stuff... when i found something intresting ;p

this is a small frog key chain. though its small, it actually bring out a memory... back dated a few years ago, when we first start dating. It was actually a gift from me, to my husband indicating a very special and memorable time of our life...

Im not the kind of person who is capable of expressing my feelings verbally, instead, i'll use different approach, expressing what i feel. Something, my husband dont really like. Ye la, bila marah ke, suka ke, geram ke, anything, i used to keep it to myself....

So, this key-chain was used, as an indirect way, to tell my husband (my future boyfriend that time) that its time for us to make it official, i.e, im wanted to say "I Love You" to him, and saying YES for a further relationship with him :) HOW??? Notice the red heart at the middle of the toy? Special thing bout it is, once you press the heart, it will say.... *smooooch* "I Love You" an indirect way to say I love You.... ;p

and after approximately 5 years... i found the toy, among some other stuff... the first thing i said to my husband and our conversation was like this...

Me: Abang.... tengok ni, yang i bagi abang dulu (while pointing to it)

My husband: Hmmm... i tak tau sebenarnya apa motif toy ni, but still i keep
(and i press the heart, *smoooch* I Love You!!!, and i smiled)

korang nak tau reaction from my husband?
My husband: Eh, i tak tau ada bunyi2... (sambil membelek toy tersebut)
Me: Ya Allah, selama ni abang tak pernah dengar la bunyinya? penat je i meluahkan perasaan.....

Hmmmm... sabar je la...

Im not a big fan of teady bears, or something like that. Although, ada 3 yang disimpan, yang istimewa.... Apart from the first one i showed.. this is my fav

memang sentiasa di tepi katil...

bought in sunway pyramid, our fav dating spot. And the funny thing is, i yang tergedik2 nakkan patung ni. When he asked me what i want? tanpa segan silunya i said " I teringin sangat nak teddy bear. Kalau bercinta mesti ada satu teddy bear, untuk kenangan. Satu je...." He smiled, and bought me this one. I love it sooo much. I always keep with me, a miniture of my husband's perfume, Hugo Boss. Poyo tak kalau i cerita whenever he's away, or the times when we were apart from each other, i used to spray his perfume to the bear ang hugged it till im asleep.... ;p kalau duduk berjauhan dengan suami, then you'll know that its not that weird, doing it....

and, whenever we had a fight, or whenever i terasa hati with my husband, i akan tunjuk protes... wont hug him to sleep. konon2 merajuk la, tidur sambil peluk bear tu.... my husband will notice that, its sooo obivious ;p

notice that one of its eye is missing? hehehe, angkara nak saudaraku.... and i was suprised when my husband noticed it too....

the main reason i got this...

and got this thru Guardian stamp collection :) never seen my husband excited sangat mengumpul setem dari Guardian ni...

so, here it is,

ntahla apa motif entry ni, just sharing... :)

Oh Ibu Mertuaku...

Salam semua...

Daring tak tajuk entry kali ni? Hehehe, bukan apa.... pagi tadi, listening to Hot FM, topik is about "Kisah Ibu Mertua". Banyak la komen2 diberi oleh pendengar yang membuatkan i tersenyum je sepanjang jalan.

Memang diakui, hubungan ibu mertua dan menantu tak selalunya indah. Just like hubungan kita dgn suami. Bak kata P. Ramlee, sedangkan lidah lagikan tergigit. Menerima dan menyesuaikan diri dengan orang yang baru, memerlukan masa dan kesabaran. Kita kena belajar tabiat, mengubah tabiat, mengambil hati, jangan cepat terasa hati, and few other things. As for me, Alhamdulillah... hubungan dengan ibu mertua bolehlah dikatakan ok, walaupun di awal2 perkahwinan, i doubt that my mother in law likes me. This is due to few reasons...

1. The first time i met my MIL was on 3rd raya, the first year we were couple. Masa ni, nervous jangan cakapla... menggigil kepala lutut. My husband bukan saja bawak mak dia, tapi SELURUH adik beradiknya, penuh rumah. My husband ada 6 orang beradik, and he's the youngest, all all of his brothers and sisters alreay married except for a sister. So, just imagine, how to make the best impression in front of your future family in law. In addition, my MIL tak bercakap banyak, masam mukanya and ada few times, i caught her, starring at me.... so, i was wondering, orang tua ni tak sukakan aku ke... tak lawa kot aku ni... and few other things... It was the first time i met her




2. Second time, was on the day my best friend during my days at MRSM BP, wanie got married, location Teluk Intan. Since the distance between Teluk Intan and Sabak Bernam (husband's hometown) too only 30mins drive, he decided to bring me to his house, right after kenduri. Masa ni, lagi la menggelabah since there will only be me, my husband, and her. Ditambah pulak dengan pengalaman pertama met her yang tak berapa memberansangkan tu, creating all kind of feelings.... In contrast, the 2nd day i met her was quite ok actually. we did a lot of talking, some jokes




3. And everything was going smooth until a week after our marriage. During kenduri menyambut menantu, di bilik pengantin yang dihias indah....romantik, hehehe my MIL were sleeping with us... kalau korang, macam mana?




4. To make things worst, on our second day of honeymoon, in langkawi, my husband received a phone call from his mother. Terkejut tak korang kalau, di saat2 indah dan manisnya mengecapi bulan madu, just the two of you... tiba2 ur MIL called and bgtau dia dah sampai jeti langkawi, and minta kami menjemput dia. Kalau korang macam mana????? Masa tu rasa nak marah sangat2, mood terus down, rasa mcm masa tu jugak nak balik, tak payah honeymoon semua. And that was the first time, me and my husband had our first fight as husband and wife, walaupun pada hakikatnya, my husband is not the person to be blame..."Bukan i yang ajak mak, bukan i yang suruh dia datang, i pun tak tahu rancangan dia, kenapa you nak marah i???", kata suamiku. Memang betul, but then, takkan nak marah my MIL kan, so i lepaskan marah pada my husband la... So our honeymonn ditemani oleh ibu mertua kesayanganku. Thank god that she was with few friends, staying jauuuhh dari hotel kami and my husband came out ith a bright idea that we already dalam pakej lawatan oleh pihak hotel, that we cannot join them. Fuuuhh... terlepas, but still, one incident, one of the night, my MIL called, saying that dia dah ada di lobi hotel kami and Tuhan menyebelahi kami, they went to the wrong one ;p we were staying at Langkasuka Beach Resot, they went to Hotel Langkasuka... itu la pengalaman bulan madu ku...




5. My MIL suka SANGAT datang ke rumah kami, compared to rumah adik beradik lain.... and kalau dia datang, hujung minggu je mesti sibuk2 nak ajak SEMUA anak2 di berkumpul kat rumah kami. Dan at te end of the day, yang tetuk buat kerja, yang penat segala, would definately be me. Dan mula la episod nak bergaduh kami laki bini. I know, its not my hubby's fault, tapi bila badan dah penat, hati jadi cepat marah, dan terpaksa la lepaskan pada my husband.... kesian abang....

BUT.........

Despite that, as time goes by, i learnt to get to know her better....

I learnt that, we cannot compare btwn our own mother and our MIL, tak sama

Kegemaran kita tak sama

Tabiat kita tak sama

Cara memasak kita tak sama

Channel tv kegemaran kita tak sama

cuma satu yang sama....

Kita sayang orang yang SAMA.... Ahmad Fairuz b. Mohd Yusof :)

I learn that, bila saja rasa down, ingatkan kembali, jasa ibu mertua kita , melahirkan dan membesarkan suami kita, kerana di atas jasanya, besar suami kita tu, dapat kawin dengan kita :P

DAN....

selepas 2 tahun dan 7++bulan perkahwinan kami, Alhamdulillah.... hubungan yang terjalin bertmbah baik....

My MIL tahu my fav food, and selalu masakkan my fav food, instead of her own son's

My MIL tahu warna kegemaran ku, compared to her other menantu (she bought maroon jubah for me, balik dari Mekah...menantu lain, pilih warna masing2)

My MIL suka datang my house, sebab dia selesa with me, its a credit for me, right... even when my husband was not around for two month, she was staying with me, for a month....

So for me, keserasian antara dua individu, bukan dapat dikecapi sehari, it needs time dan kesabaran.... InsyaAllah

Now, she's currently not feeling very well, dah mula cakap yang merepek2 tentang mati...saki dan dll. Sebab sayang la, last week, rabu kami ambil cuti, balik sabak dan temankan dia yang sedang down sangat sebab dah nak kena mula dialisis

Dan sebab sayang jugakla, belum sempat kering peluh baru sampai, i masakkan makanan kegemarannya, masakkan bubur kacang yang dimintanya. Semoga dia lebih sihat nanti....

us.....

Latest addiction?????

Salam semua...
I just purchased this last week....

and i got these for free

Some friends at school teased me something regarding a new addiction to Tupperware. I senyum je. I'm not that addicted to tupperware, but still, i wish to have some of its collection. While browsing the catalogue, my initial intention was just purchasing bekas isi air dalam fridge. Instead, i spent almost 300 for all these. I was looking for the best best way to sneek it without being seen by my husband. Well, you know guys.... they doesn't seem to understand our passion in all those things.

and im actually kinda like looking at all these, neatly organized in my store room

;p

My sis's big day...

Salam semua...

My sis's big day, back in dec last year. Sungguh la lama baru upload hehehe (sorry kak ngah) Enjoy

Husbandku yang prihatin...

Salam semua...

Lately... (well, not lately to be exact...) after two miscarriage and 3 months of supplement from doc, i gained weight (jangan harap la i nak bagitau berapa). Actually, by taking the med prescribed from doc, its so obivios that one of its symptom is some weight gain. Trust me on this, since i've already been there. So, since my husband is sangat prihatin with the 'development' o his beloved wife, he bought me something, a week ago, and the things arrived to our house later this evening. Kawan-kawan nak tahu apakah ia? It's......

Haaaaa, basikal kayuh dalam rumah

and since he's concern that im not going to use it, he's found out a very strategic place for it...

depan tv, dalam our master bedroom :)

since he knew that im always into sitcoms in the morning (due to my new working routine), he purposely put it there, so that i can use it, while watching my fav sitcoms

and for himself...

apa tah nama benda ni, he did mentioned bout it, tapi i terlupa

quoted from him " i dah lama tak guna______________ ni, last dulu time join rugby during uni time"

this gesture of him, is actually a wake up call for me. yes, blame it to the med....

jangan risau bang, i akan guna ;p

rasa macam nak tengok wayang di the curve la...

lama tak dating the curve :)

contd'

p/s:you should be reading my previous post first

Salam semua, continue from my previous post,

From these....

to these....

kami telah transform ruang tamu atas, from this

to these...

yes...yes, i know. tak seberapa, but still, ni la hasil titik pelu kami. ni la syurga kami...

ada few plans to be excuted, tapi masih dalam perancangan, tunggu duit simpanan penuh balik...

New...

Salam semua...
As stated from my previous post, i was considering of replacing my old fridge. Sin ce wang yang terkumpul sudah mencukupi, malam tu jgk we went to Seng Hup, purchasing my new......

Toshiba Fridge [GR-RG73MDA]
Alhamdulillah....
So... introducing our new fridge
(mesti ada orang cakap, beli peti ais pun nak kecoh2, tapi gasaklah...)


it took me 5 months to purchase this

bahagian dalam. spacious

setelah diisi

comparing old and new
*my husband cakap.... hah, tidurla kat bawah dengan peti ais tu

(sebab.... i keep on hugging n tersengih2 masuk n keluar dapur, hehehe, jangan marah ye bang...)

Nadia, still remember wed abg pojie, when i couldn't make it to ikea? Well,the same evening, ikea hntr the furniture yang kami beli dr ikea.
The delivery service, bukan percuma ye.... i thought sepang, since its not that far from putrajaya, i thought the cost is the same, around 60-100 bucks. TETAPI sangkaanku meleset, "sepang outside klang valley and neighbourhood, so akak kena bayar rm220" Amek kau, tapi what to do, takkan nak mengankut naik kereta, berapa kali nak pusing2, then mana la muat kayu2 tu. So, i pay la, together with fee utk the workers pasang siap


pekerja sedang memasang



hasilnya, 2 rak kayu


2 rak besi


1 almari buku

office table

rak kayu, besi, digunakan untuk mengemaskini stor.
almari buku n meja office, kami gunakan untuk transformekan (ade ke this word) ruang menonton di atas kepada SOHO(small office/home office) senang sket buat kerja, plus my husband should be preparing for his exam somewhere in march.

i did mention dalam post terdahulu, bout one of my husband's organizing attitude. Seriously, he's the most organize person i've ever met, my whole life. More organized than my uni friend nadia (seriously, nadia mmg seorang yang sangat organized-trust me, her roommate for 3 years :p)
so, my husband memang tak suka sepah2 ni, so we spent the whole evening, menyusun atur dua stor kami. i'll attach the pics in my next post, since i rasa dah panjang sangat ni
:)