Salam semua...
Macam selalu, today I started my car at 6.45 am, switch on the aircond, then the radio. I suka tukar2 radio station, cari yang mana ada cerita menarik pagi2. I tuned into Hot FM. Macam yang semua orang tahu, Hot Fm ada satu segmen called Panggilan Hangit. And tentu for those who listened morning tadi, tentu ingat panggilan hangit pagi tadi.
It was a request from a husband, to her wife; issue: the husband nak berpoligami. Actually, this was last week punya panggilan hangit, before faizal sempat explain to the wife, she hung up. He tried calling back, but the wife refused to pick up, until faizal call the husband, suruh dia pujuk his wife. So today, faizal replay the last week conversation, then he gave her another call, for further comment.
Do you know why she hung up in the first place?, its because, it was actually not a JOKE punya PANGGILAN HANGIT, its for real. The husband memang ada intention untuk berpoligami.
By listening to the replay of last week conversation, listening to the wife punya suara, rasa sedih sangat, I even cried (hmmm… I memang emosional cerita2 mcm ni). Suaranya slow, bergetar and banyak kali she paused during the conversation, nak mengawal emosinya agaknya. She was upset, for few reasons. 1st- the husband tak jelaskan benar2 kenapa he was having another relationship with another women. 2nd – as a courtesy, the wife requested that the husband buat satu perjumpaan, mereka bertiga, tiga pasang mata bertemu untuk berbincang, tapi suaminya tak buat. She said,
“ Kalau caranya betul, mungkin saya boleh terima kenyataan ini, tapi saya tak kenal siapa perempuan tu, macam mana saya nak berkongsi hidup dengannya. Macam mana nasib saya dan anak2 saya? Kebajikan kami?” (and this moment, memang airmataku laju je mencurah2. 3rd – nothing can be said, to express how she felt, with the fact that her husband is in love with another women.
So, pagi tadi, ada banyak sangat people yang call, yang sms, masing2 meluahkan pandangan masing2. Actually, I tried too, but the line was busy. What I was planning to say is…
“ Bagaimana seorang lelaki yang sungguh gentlemen, yang datang berjumpa keluarga kita, asking for permission to marry us, yang menyambut tangan tok kadi, beserta akad serta sumpahnya untuk menjaga, menyayangi kita, yang mencium ubun2 kepala saat membatalkan air sembahyang, yang bertahun2 telah kita sama2 harungi susah dan senang, berkongsi hidup, masalah dan cerita, how can dia anggap benda ini sesuatu yang tidak serius, boleh diperlekehkan, on air pulak tu”… Sampai hati dia
Actually, itu yang buat saya sedih. Don’t get me wrong, its not that im facing the same prob, maklumlah, lain macam je komen kan… hehehe I sekadar menjiwai keperitan yang dilalui oleh wanita tersebut (im actually good at that)
The DJ managed to talk to the husband, on air pagi tadi. And he said, akan teruskan rancangannya. And I can still remember the last sentence from the husband,
“ Whatever it is, I takkan tinggalkan awak, I akan jaga kebajikan awak. And sayang, I love you”. Hmmmm ye lah tu……. Sayang ke macam tu? Sampai hati.
Right after that, faizal putarkan lagu Ungu, Demi Waktu. Timing memang baaaeeeekkkk punya. I did cry, again. Lirik lagunya, if its being heard carefully, memang menusuk kalbu and if im that wife, memang kena sangat lagu ni. I don’t think im that strong, Tuhan Maha Mengetahui. Hopefully, ini cerita yang I akan dengar sahaja, never would I like to experience it myself.. I hope my husband is not reading this, I know he don’t, cause if he did....
"Kan i dah kata, stop reading all these novels, no more carekarama, no more drama, no more Nur Kasih, Semua ni merosakkan fikiran you, pikir yang bukan2. After this, only cerita perang and discovery channel je for you"Ye... i know my husband, itula dialog yang bakal suamiku utarakan....
So friends... ada komen?
